http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com Lisa Steadman's Community 60 Sat, 21 Nov 2009 23:34:35 GMT http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3711964 I'll try and sum up what happened. I've known this girl for about 11 years now and ever since we met when we were younger we wanted to be together, I mean we always talked about how crazy we were for each other and how we wished we could have a chance. She lived in PA and I in VA but her family lived here too. My best friend is her cousin so that naturally made it easier to see her. Well, we've always loved each other and wanted to have a chance, we dated other people growing up but always seemed to come back to one another. About 2 summers ago she was down here doing a field work for her major and we started really dating and decided to give it a go. She had to break up with the guy she was with and in september we started dating long distance. We were off and on at first for diff reasons, but we dated for close to two years solid, until about 3 weeks ago. She moved here for me and took a job here, we started having a bunch of problems, but always worked through them. Some stupid stuff, one other was that she didn't feel i was doing enough to move our relationship forward since i hadn't gotten a full time job yet. <br><br>Well, she tells me a few weeks back that she hadn't been feeling the spark really and needed a break. We talked it over and she ended up wanting to work through it. i thought everything was improving and then suddenly she tells me she isn't feeling romantic towards me at all and just doesn't think she should have to try so hard. She wants our friendship back and doesn't feel like a relationship is what is meant for us. <br><br>We always talked about our futures together, how we wanted to live in NC, what kind of dog we wanted, how in love we were, all that stuff. Ever since I've known her theres a part of me that has felt like she was going to be the one I was going to spend my life with. Then all of a sudden all my dreams and aspirations are shot down. I've had a really hard time trying to let go. I realize that maybe this is meant to happen so i will find the right one. Everyone of my friends has said that she didn't appreciate all the things i did for her and for awhile she just demanded things of me and gave no love in return. She's talked to me once or twice since that day. It made me miserable, b/c ive been trying to let go and I can't, and that just makes it even harder. Some days I just feel like I lost all direction.<br><br>Then this past friday she talked to me for a few online and told me she went to her friend Chris's place cuz he got new kittens. And then I did another stupid thing and looked at her facebook and realized that she just met this guy after we broke up and her status was "haven't been this happy in awhile." It's sunday now and my best friend is her cousin and he called me tonight to tell me that her and this Chris guy were over at his house visiting her aunt and uncle. I feel so betrayed and angry. I don't know what to do anymore. I wanted to hold onto the hope that things could change in the future or that we could at least become friends again. But this makes me feel like there is no love for me anymore that she just doesn't care. Why stab me in the heart this many times?? What should I do..<br> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3711964 Mon, 12 Oct 2009 01:33:28 GMT redford804 http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3631584 Isn't it funny how you never know the last time you'll be together until it's over and then when it happens, either you say you never saw it coming or your shocked that it did...........does that make sense? <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3631584 Sat, 22 Aug 2009 16:30:41 GMT maryanne12 http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3631085 hey.. i just broke up with my ex.. he says he loves his colleague now.. the thing is i always knew she has something in mind.. she message him sweet goodnight messages.. then she confess her love to him.. then i saw her on his bike when he was suppose to send me.. and another again.. he suddenly says he is tired from work and we shouldn't meet often.. so once a week.. then there is this guy who won't tell me who he is.. message me saying he saw my ex with another girl in 2 places at different times.. i didn't believe.. all these i confronted him and he deny.. we were together for 4 years.. and our last aniversary he didn't even say happy anniversary.. he just said hapy to you too.. i know how you feel.. i haven eaten for 10 days now.. at all.. i've been thinking of him a lot.. he wants to let me go.. but how could i? we had a child together.. what am i supposed to do? how can i let him go? this is not my full story.. but will write again..<br> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3631085 Sat, 22 Aug 2009 03:31:29 GMT furtado_06 http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3599634 <P>Well it's rough to talk about how I feel and I usually just break down but here's my story...<BR>I've been "dating" a guy for 3 three years now.&nbsp; I met him my junior year and high shool when he was a senior. We had the same class together and hit it off great. We started going on dates&nbsp;and spent pretty much all the time we could together possible.&nbsp; Things seemed perfect.&nbsp; After about six months we started getting sexually active. We continued seeing each other off and on, and wen we weren't talking he would go to his ex girlfriend.&nbsp; I'm now in my second year of college and still "date" this guy. I'm totally in love with him.&nbsp;But i can't see past that we are just dating? Sometimes he's so sweet but other times he totally ignores me. We talk everyday, but he's too selfish and wanting to have his own fun than to commit to me. He says he only talks to me but I'm still totally hurt. He parties constantly, never invites me, never holds my hand in public.. so I feel like he's ashamed of me. He makes me feel so insecure it's crazy. He's the kind of guy who wants to get married when e's like 50 ad have children when he's like 80, and that's just not what I want. He claims he doesn't know what love is and is afraid of it. When I bring all this up he doesn;t comfort me he&nbsp;just tells me I think too much. Than when I talk about us actually being together he says he wants to b wih me just not right now. He says he wants to give me everything in a relationship and jut cant right now? I dont know I'm doing anymore and I just cant seem to leave him. I cry and cry and sometimes feel like the only way I an get over this is moving away? I need help? What should I do?<BR></P> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3599634 Sat, 01 Aug 2009 22:30:59 GMT hurting_one http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3579549 Hi fellow depressives and professors of love,<BR><BR>Let me start by telling you all a little bit about myself. Im an outdoor adventurous sporty kind of guy (24 years old). My favourite thing to do is/was to make my girlfriend feel like a princess. I used to take her out to fancey restraunts that we've never tried before, buy her flowers, listen to her problems and give her advice when needed. I'm not the type of guy to want to date many woman and i dont seek any 1 night stands or crave anyone elses attention. I am what you might call a "Nice guy" but nice guys ALWAYS come last. <BR><BR>I had a fabulous girl. We'd been dating for 3 years now and things were going well. However we did have some tough times over the past. I met her when i was trying to get over my previous X (also broke my heart). She was fun and had the same morals and ethics as me. She wasnt as outgoing and spontaneous as me, but i learned to love her exactly for who she was. Over the past year i had been studying 18 hour days just to pass my engineering universtiy exams. I also went to america for 6 months to get away from life for a bit. Things between us remained strong. We chatted everyday and planned a 4 week holiday in the USA and carribean. We had lots of fun.. but had a few fights along the way.<BR><BR>Now comes the big event. about 4 weeks ago i finished my final exams, had my birthday and was loving life. I could now see my girlfriend whenever i wanted to (not only twice a week that studies limited me too). We'd pulled through the tough times and things looked bright for us. However after she had a quick family holiday in London, she got back we had a fun 3 weeks and then out of the blue,<BR><BR>SHE BROKE UP WITH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<BR><BR>her reason. she thinks we are not right for each other, she loves me and still wants to be friends. She highlighted events that she wasnt happy with (all small things that i could have fixed). She didnt communicate with me about any of these things and as a result she just ended things. She said we need to brake up and maybe we'll see in a month!! Maybe??? ha?<BR><BR>That was a week ago.. and im very depressed. I have a good few friends and family that are trying to help me through this. I want her back more than anything in the world. I know she needs time but i just cant take it.. its killing me. We loved each other and were having the time of our lives. She broke my heart so she could be single for a while. I dont want things to end. Not like this, not now... not at all! Her birthday is in a month, I want to make her&nbsp;a journal of our holiday and all our memories!!???<BR><BR>I really do need advice.. and any other details i left out ill fill you in on... <BR>thanks...<BR>HEARTBROKEN<BR> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3579549 Mon, 20 Jul 2009 14:23:19 GMT Niceguy http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3486290 <p>Join me <strong>TONIGHT, May 20 @ 6pm Pacific for a FREE call</strong>. 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Trust her workbook the way youd trust a doctors prescription, and youll be on the road to recovery in no time.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="">&nbsp;</span>- Evan Marc Katz, dating coach and author of <i style="">Why Youre Still Single Things Your Friends Would Tell You If You Promised Not to Get Mad</i></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">If you are contemplating or in the midst of a break-up, grab this book as soon as possible. This is a must-have resource for you!<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Hunker down and let Lisa help you heal and grow though this most difficult time in your life.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>She knows the ins and outs of getting through the pain and developing new levels of self-love! Give yourself this gift by starting on Lisa's program as soon as you can!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="">&nbsp;</span>- Dr. Diana Kirschner, author of <i style="">Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love</i></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">This workbook has been a true gift and could not have arrived at a better time for me. I love how Lisa Steadman acknowledges and incorporates into her workbook that it takes 21 days to break a habit and conveniently, this book has a 21-day plan. Lisa never made me feel bad about myself if I didn't fully complete that day's goal. As a matter of fact, she encourages even baby steps and acknowledges that EVERYONE will have a setback (or 2 or 3). This book is a MUST read for anyone going through a breakup!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">R. Adar, breakup rock star</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">OK Ladies, if you are looking at this book, you are probably going through a breakup. So, in the words of Lisa Steadman, Congratulations on your breakup! And, I'd like to add, congratulations on finding this workbook. I wish I could give a copy to every woman going through a breakup (along with those who are staying in bad relationships out of fear of going through the breakup). I know this sounds crazy, but you just have no idea how amazing and meaningful a breakup can be until you've gone through it with the help of Lisa Steadman. If you don't believe me, try it!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 21pt; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!-- --><span style=""><span style="">-<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; -x-system-font: none;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!-- --><span style="font-family: Arial;">Cindy Lou, breakup rock star </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">Wow, this book is SO helpful! Having gone through a painful breakup, Lisa Steadman's workbook was the best tool for giving me actual steps to take to help heal my broken heart. I would recommend it to anyone who wants to take charge and help themselves move on to a whole new life. The steps and suggestions are easy to follow and bring about great results!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 21pt; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!-- --><span style=""><span style="">-<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; -x-system-font: none;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!-- --><span style="font-family: Arial;">Vanessa, breakup rock star </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 3pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">Get your copy of <i style="">Its A Breakup, Not A Breakdown The Workbook: A 21 Day Action Plan To Plot Your Revenge, Spoil Yourself, And Find Out How Good Life Is Without Him</i> right NOW by going to: </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial;">&nbsp;</span></p> <span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"><a target="_blank" href="http://www.itsabreakupnotabreakdownworkbook.com/"><a href="http://www.itsabreakupnotabreakdownworkbook.com" target="_blank">http://www.itsabreakupnotabreakdownworkbook.com</a></a></span> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3472865 Tue, 12 May 2009 19:36:42 GMT TheRelationshipJournalist http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3471214 One of the many great questions I'll answer on my FREE call tomorrow (Tuesday)! For all the deets, go here: <a href="http://www.asklisasteadman.com/" target="_blank">http://www.asklisasteadman.com/</a><br> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3471214 Mon, 11 May 2009 21:46:02 GMT TheRelationshipJournalist http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3466605 <p>Are you going through a breakup and struggling to move on? </p> <p>Do you secretly fear your life is over, without your ex? </p> <p>Whats keeping you up at night, weighing heavily on your mind? </p> <p>If there was one question you could ask me about healing and moving on following a breakup, what would it be?</p> <p>Next <strong>Tuesday, May 12 @ 6pm Pacific </strong>Im giving a FREE call where Ill answer ALL your questions LIVE. </p> <p>Im so excited! This is my chance to support you in your healing and reinvention.</p> <p>So what youre burning question? <a target="_blank" href="http://www.asklisasteadman.com/">Submit it here</a>.</p> <p>Ill answer as many questions as I can on the call. If theres time, well do some laser coaching.</p> <p>Mark your calendar with THIS date and time: </p> <p><strong>Tuesday, May 12 @ 6pm Pacific</strong></p> <p>Heres that link again to ask me ANYTHING:<br> <a target="_blank" href="http://www.asklisasteadman.com/"><br> <a href="http://www.asklisasteadman.com/" target="_blank">http://www.asklisasteadman.com/</a></a></p> <p>When you submit a question, youll get the dial in deets.</p> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3466605 Fri, 08 May 2009 20:16:09 GMT TheRelationshipJournalist http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3428218 <font face="Courier">I am writing this letter to the person that broke up with me 8 months ago and I am still in love with her. Let me know if it is worth sending or not. Thank you. HC<br><br></font>I don't know how you have been or how anyone in your family has been. I've been trying to keep occupied with school and trying to figure things out. I know that you are enjoying yourself and figuring things out on your own. And I really do not want to make anything worst for you or me. For the longest time I have been pretending that everything is okay and that I am better of wiht out you in my life. I have tried to move on and it always comes back to you. I know that you don't love me anymore and I don't blame you for that at all. I should have done things a lot more different and probably let you go sooner rather than later because now it has been a struggle trying to live my life. I have done a lot of great things on my on, traveled away from Orange County to get away from everything is the most important one. You know how it is everywhere I turn there is a memory of me being with you and I cannot handle that anymore. I am almost done with the credential program and have been exepted to do the masters program. I have been looking for a job outside of the OC, LA, or even southern California. I hate to move away from the memories that you and I made, but it seems that it was all fake at times. Last night I went running and all I can think about was you. The last time that I was with you before you left and how you were reassuring me that we would be okay. All I could picture was your smile and how excited you were and I was too that you were going to travel. I wanted you to have fun in Cambridge and as much as I hate that place you were so much happier there without me. That right there is never going to leave me. I know that liked that other guy and eventhough it never amount to anything it has killed me inside. That saddens me, I always assumed that you would always be honest with me and I with you. I never lied to you, I love you with all my heart. But you never felt the same way. I want to tell you that I can be there for you, but to be honest I don't think I can because I cant look at you the same way I did before you left. My mind and body has faught through this pain. I want to tell myself that I can be friends that I can support you and be there for you even though you are not with me. But I can't, I can't bare to see you without getting mad at you without thinking how you felt for that other guy, I can't think of you without getting sad, I can't see you with your Cambridge friends. But most of all I can't stop feeling that I still love you. I know that you don't want to hear that, but as much as I can't think of you without getting sad, I will always love you and want to be with you. I have gotten mad, extremely angry at you. But all that anger does not compare to how sad I get after, how much I miss you. I miss everything about you, your smell, touch, hugs, laugh, smile, your mest up ears, your alien looking toes, the dimples on your back, your lips. I know that you probably will never take me back and wonder why. I was always there for you, I supported everything that you wanted to do (even when you applied to UCLA), I gave you plenty of massages, I played with you hair, tickled your back and listen to you when something was going wrong or making you angry. I know that I kept my anger inside of me, but I did it so that I wouldn't hurt you. You were and still are important to me. And as much as I want to be in touch with you, I can only do it if you want to be more then just friends. I cannot give you my heart again without knowing that you will give me yours. And this is not meant to hurt you in anyway. You do not have to respond. I have been feeling this way about you ever since you left me, so don't feel sorry for me. You know that I am strong enough. I just wanted to let you know that I still love you, but could not say it any other way.<br> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3428218 Fri, 17 Apr 2009 03:14:34 GMT completelybroken http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3400232 I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now.&nbsp; Its okay i guess, we hardly fight, he never ever cheats he is basically the "perfect boyrfriend"..but i just don't know if he is perfect for me.&nbsp; He loves me so much and wants to get married but I don't know if I do..Shouldn't I know its Yes or NO..<br>We have tried to spice things up&nbsp; but our relationship is so boring.&nbsp; I am hardly attracted to him, he annoys me all the time, he can never remember anything, he is very spacy, makes up stories that stretch the truth to make him sound better.&nbsp; There is just something missing but I feel bad because he is the nicest person I know, he loves me more than anyone ever has and i love him but....<br>Is this me thinking"the grass is greener on the other side" or should i stay with him.&nbsp; i keep thinking things will change but i dont know if they ever will..can i deal with all of it for the REST F MY LIFE? i dont think i can..sooo confused<br><br><br> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3400232 Thur, 02 Apr 2009 00:09:59 GMT soconfused http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3389167 So, Me and my boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up a few months ago. Although we have broken up more times than I can count in the past 4 years, this is definately it for me. It has been really rough, but what made things 100 times worse for me was knowing he is with another girl, and probably treating her better than me, because of all the pain and crap I went through with him, he now knows how to treat women better I think. I cant seem to help myself from looking at his facebook pictures of him happy with this girl, it is driving me CRAZY! I was not doing so bad till he told me about this girl and I saw pictures! Any ideas for what I can do to stop obsessing about this?<br>Help! <br><br> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3389167 Fri, 27 Mar 2009 03:20:43 GMT bexy09 http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3384961 I have been suffering through the worst six months of my entire life, and only recently have I found myself enjoying the things I used to again. My ex-husband and I celebrated our 5 year anniversary last September, and later that week he asked me for a divorce, completely out of the blue. We never fought about anything, and I truly thought things were really good. We're both in school, so there's the typical stress of school+work, and on top of that we're both in the military. We married young, but I was completely devoted to making it work (and avoiding the "starter marriage"). We were both deployed to Iraq, him for a year and then me for a year (spending two years apart), but since then we renewed our vows and were living normally and happily. He decided to go on Active Duty and began making career decisions without consulting me about where he would be stationed and so on, and then when he asked for a divorce he said it was because he thought he would be making me sacrifice my dreams for his career and he didn't want me to become resentful (so he thought he was "freeing" me, so to speak).&nbsp; No matter what I did or said, I couldn't change his mind and he filed for divorce. I was devastated, have been devastated for the past 6 months. I married him at 20 and have always banked on our plan that we had together, and I find myself floundering and trying to discover who I am again. Almost immediately after he filed for divorce, he began living like he was single again, staying out all night and texting young college girls though he was still living with me. I finally asked him to leave for my own sanity. I could go on, citing all the lies he told me and ways I feel betrayed, but I truthfully don't want to relive all that.<br><br>Reading these posts make me feel better because I know that I'm not alone. I have so many friends and family that have all been so incredibly supportive of me, and across the board shocked to hear about the breakup but totally there for me. Still, it helps to hear that other people have gone through what I am going through and have made it to the other side. I have read so many people say that they can look back and see that they feel like they were in love with an image of their former partner, instead of who he really was. I think I was that way too. I can look back and see mistakes that I made because I was so naive, taking so much for granted. At the same time, I can see that there were many aspects of who he was/is that I didn't see and don't really like. I'm still caught in that trap of mourning our relationship and what I thought we had, but not wanting to be with the person he is now.<br><br>Spring is here again, and I'm grateful to find a place where I can come and read to distract me from his Facebook page. I'm getting there, but I'm glad to have some help getting over him. Thanks in advance!<br> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3384961 Wed, 25 Mar 2009 02:35:05 GMT Jessiree33 http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3357901 <p>Join me tonight, Wednesday, March 11 @ 7pm Pacific/10pm Eastern for a free call where Ill share surefire strategies you can use right away to heal and move on. On the call, youll also get laser coaching from me to help kick start your healing heart.</p> <p>To participate the call, <a target="_blank" href="http://www.lisasteadman.com/BreakupBootCampCall.html">click here</a>. Once you pre-register, the call details will be emailed to you in just minutes.</p> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3357901 Wed, 11 Mar 2009 17:53:58 GMT TheRelationshipJournalist http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3260230 <font face="Verdana">to tell you the truth, I've never been the luckiest guy when it comes to love. It starts off lovely, I influence and get influenced by incredible people in incredible ways and i always have a gooood time. Laughing, light-heartedness, spontaneity.Thats what it's like in the beginning, and then the person I'm with falls heavily in love. <br><br>I don't want heavy loves.<br><br>I like the light "I can tell you anything", "I wanna bring out the best in you", "lets laugh and play and tell secrets" kind of love..<br>not 'where are you now'...'why are you talking to that girl/guy'....'i think i like you more than you like me'<br><br><br>I just got out of a 2 year relationship, and jumped into another relationship. The previous relationship was very controlling and limited me as a person, so i jumped into what i thought would be a light and fun relationship to remind me what Happy was all about. He turns out to want things very serious, even though i told him i wanted things lighter since the beginning. <br><br>plus, someone I've liked for a long time is available.<br><br>What to do...<br>Drop the newbie? Pick up the Long time Admired?<br>Celibacy? <br></font><br> <p>Forum: <a href="http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=126658">Old Messages</a> http://lalunalisa.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3260230 Wed, 28 Jan 2009 04:31:33 GMT Mark